A Nigerian man who happens to be an LIB reader shares an insightful short story in a response to photographer Demilade Roberts experiences in covering wedding ceremonies, revealing how he did all sort which was tagged by society unmanly to make his marriage which was falling apart work.
It all started when the top Nigerian photographer, Demilade Roberts, who is set to tie the knot soon, took to Instagram to share his experiences covering wedding ceremonies.
According to Roberts, he now understands why marriages fall apart and therefore will never judge those couples that call it quits months after wedding.
Reacting to the post, the man who identifies as Don naija on Lindaikejiblog recounted what he did to save his marriage. The man who went ahead to reveal how he fought for his marriage and not giving up on it because he wanted the marriage to work. He wrote
”Boring. Moral of the story. We don’t have skills and tools for marriage. We need to be educated and what life throws at us. Divorce is not a bad thing but not a good option either. If you have to do it let it be because it was broken finally. I faced it too. But i fought for my marriage until i made it work. I washed plates, i cleaned the house, i woke up early helping my wife. I stayed upstairs while she watched tv downstairs. She liked yoruba movies while i loved sports but i wanted it to work. We need to understand and have what it takes.”
What are your thoughts on this? Kindly leave a comment and don’t forget to share